11. Kalahavivāda Sutta Discourse on the Quarrels and Disputes 868. Where do quarrels and disputes originate? And why do envy, lamentation, anxiety, backbiting, conceit and arrogance arises? Pray , Gotama Buddha , kindly explain to us, the cause of those (disturbing) things. (1) 869. It is due to someone or something dear that quarrels, and disputes originate; and envy, lamentation, anxiety, backbiting, conceit and arrogance